Your crime, your responsibility

Since your child is born, you learn him/her right from wrong. But one day in any teenagers life, mommy and daddy won't be there anymore to check them out when the child will be older. This is why parents shouldn't assume their child's crime or actions. Firstly, they should learn to be fully independent. Secondly, teenagers need to learn from their own mistakes because all their lives, their parents learned them right from wrong. Lastly, they would have to pay their own tickets if they disrespected any law... Usually parents pay their tickets because of their child's bad actions, but now will their child's calm down after knowing he/she will pay their own ticket whether it's for vandalism or any other crime?

Every child in life reach a point while growing up, mom and dad won't be around to check them out. When they are about 13-17 years old, parents let them privileges to go out with friends, girlfriends, boyfriends with the trust that the child won't do anything bad and stay calm. When parents aren't around, they can't control everything they do. Parents can raise their children to be the most responsible and respectful adults they can. However, it is up to the child to follow those lessons later when parents won't be there to hold their hands. It is up to them to be responsible. When kids do something bad, parents need to teach them right from wrong to make them understand how they should and shouldn't behave. A big average of child's choose to ignore advice and go their own ways. If the children gets disciplines and still does bad things, it's not the parents that need to be punished.

If ever your child or teenage breaks a law or has done a wrong action, they should assume full consequences. Usually, when your child breaks the law like vandalism, you, the parents get full responsibility. Like Paying the ticket that doesn't only cost 3$ but sometimes 300$! Children's and/or teenagers should assume full responsibility like paying the ticket that was caused by his/her own fault. Parents were here for you for feeding, clothing and learning respect. After learning them these

elements, childs are fully responsible for the rest. 

Children need to learn to be responsible for themselves. We are taught what we are taught. Human beings have the brain capacity to make choices. All choices have consequences, whether good or bad, in order to become responsible for ourselves, we have to assume the consequences for our wrong decisions or actions. Giving children the no blame will never get them responsible from themselves. Learning them to be responsible will make them better people in the futur. Giving them the no blame to mom and dad will never make them responsible people when they'll have to be alone on their side. 

To conclude, teenagers should accept from their own consequences. It is not to the parents to assume for them. They should learn from their own mistakes, pay their own tickets. Parents were always there to learn them right from wrong, now it is up to the child to assume full consequences for their own actions. Do you think the next generation will start being more responsible for themselves?